Married for Married m4w
I know that the title may seem shocking, but it at least got your attention to click on it an find out more. I know that this may be a shot in the dark, but I am hoping that I find someone that understands what I am going through and/or they may be going through the same type of thing.
I have been married for over a decade now, but for the past few years, our relationship has lost most of its passion and intimacy. There are times when we can go weeks without even touching each other, other than the kiss goodbye or goodnight. We have communicated a lot about it, and even gone to counseling, etc, but nothing seems to work.
Being intimate and feeling "wanted" has made me feel somewhat incomplete, and I have know justified that if I go outside of my marriage to fulfill that part of my life is okay. Of course it would have to be the right situation for both people. I dont plan on telling my wife about this at all, because I dont want to break up our family.
A little bit about me: I am white professional, 5 ft 9, 5lbs, educated. I have a flexible daytime work schedule and some availability in the evenings.
I am looking for someone that is mature enough to know what this type of relationship is. I am not looking to be a sugar daddy or willing to be "generous"! Im also looking for someone that takes care of themselves or actively working on it.
I am also not looking for anyone that is trying to be a relationship expert and suggest certain things to "spice up" the situation with my wife. I dont mind talking about my relationship, but I have gone past the phase of looking to fix it.
I will be happy to send my pic, but since I publicly stated on CL that I am willing to have an affair if the right situation arises, I would prefer to see your pic first to make sure we dont know each other. Please respond with, "I Get You" in your subject line, so I will know that you are not a bot or spam.